This is dedicated today to a wonderful friend, her family and the dog they love so.....
Today when my friend picked up the phone I knew there was something wrong....I could tell she was crying. There are no words that lessen the pain and heartache of being told one of your furbabies is on limited time. The kind of pain you feel at that moment is something so strong and it leaves you feeling empty, overwhelmed with sadness, scared and lonely.
This sweet dog is to this family, a family member. He is loved and cherished. He is a child, a buddy, a companion. He has had an amazing life and really knows what love is all about. He could not have found a better family...a family that loves their pets as this family does.
This is something new to them. Something I wish would never happen to anyone. We should be able to keep our furbabies forever!
I have been in their situation and my heart is breaking for them. Where do you find the words to try and ease their pain?
Just know that he had an amazing life and he knows what love and kindness are because of you. Love him, love him, love him! Let him be the king for his remaining time and reassure him that you are there. And should that horrible day come when it is not a matter of falling asleep and not waking up - know that your gut will tell you when the time has come - it will tell you that he needs help. That is the hardest decision a person ever has to make - to help their pet pass- but know you are doing it out of love. Please don't feel guilty or second guess yourself. Letting them go is the final act of love. Be there, hard as it may be, holding him and telling him you love him and what a good boy he is. Yes there will be lots of tears and such a sadness and heartache but he will need you to be there...... He has loved you for as long as you have loved him. He will always be in your heart and bring you smiles in your memories of him.
I know that he will be spoiled and loved for his remaining time. I know how much you love him and I know that all I have said you already feel and know.....
Please know that I am thinking of you and my heart is breaking for what you are going through. My wish is for good days until his peaceful passing...
Hugs to you my friends.
